Traditional VS Online Dating: How To Best Spend Your Money [Infographic]
By Top10BestDatingSites Staff
Does the idea of paying for online dating make you feel a bit uncomfortable? There’s nothing wrong with meeting people naturally, why should I pay for a date? Surely I shouldn’t be digging into my pockets before I’ve even met someone?
Allow us to disillusion you. If you think that ‘meeting naturally’ doesn’t come with a price tag, you’re sadly mistaken. Especially if you’re male, the statistics show that 77% of daters believe a man should foot the first date bill. Now consider how many first dates involve you meeting a woman who turns out to be wildly inappropriate after the first five minutes. Not only are you stuck wasting your valuable time, but every mouthful she swallows is another drain on your bank balance, and makes you look like a real jerk when you ask for the check before the dessert menus arrive.
Now imagine you have already had that first conversation. After a few stilted lines of instant messenger, or a complete lack of attraction and chemistry via video chat, you simply wish each other the best of luck and move onto another potential match, no cost incurred!
Penny Wise, Pound Foolish
But it’s not free at all! I’ve paid a hefty monthly subscription! Perhaps this is true. (Although comparing competitive online dating monthly subscriptions to the cost of three or four first date dinners per month is pretty neck and neck in our opinion.)
However, what you’re forgetting is that your likelihood of finding a suitable match is so much higher with online dating. Scientific matchmaking, behavioral compatibility tests, and powerful search tools allow you to narrow down your results to those you are most likely to click with offline. You can also ask questions you would need to wait until three months of casual dating to ask offline. Looking for marriage and kids? Weed out the less serious daters with one click, saving both time and money too.
It’s all about the Money, Money, Money
Still worried about the facts and figures? Let us break it down for you. The cost for couples from initial meet to marriage when offline is typically around $22,000. In comparison, those who met online marry far quicker, racking up costs of under $10,000. But hey, don’t worry, I’m sure you don’t really need an extra $12,000.
Worried you’ll make the commitment to a website and won’t see results? Websites such as Zoosk, Match and Ourtime experience incredibly high levels of success, just check out the websites to see the thousands of happy couples sharing their stories! All in all, we think it’s worth the risk.
After all, as the wise Judy Garland once said, “I can live without money, but I can’t live without love!”
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